Monday, January 27, 2014

October 20, 2013 {9 1/2 WEEKS}

We had a bit of a scare today.  I woke up to go to the bathroom after T left for his Sunday meetings and found that I had a bit of brown spotting.  I’d heard this was pretty normal, but let’s be honest, I’ve never done this whole pregnancy thing before and I was a little concerned.  T came home after his meetings and I told him what had happened and if he’d pray with me.  His immediate reaction was, “Where do you want to pray?”  We knelt down in the back room and he poured out our feelings for both of us.  We both want this baby so badly.  He prayed for peace and comfort and that the Lord would know the true desires of our heart to raise a son or daughter in the gospel.

I felt a calm peace come over us and we headed to church!  T passed out the announcements and ushered at the door until after the sacrament.  I sat on our bench with my parents and Annette and tried to find peace and comfort in the hymns.  Hymn #96, Dearest Children, God is Near You, was the opening hymn this morning.  I got through the first line and then teared up (own it up to emotions?).   

Dearest children, God is near you,
Watching o’er you day and night,
And delights to own and bless you,
If you strive to do what’s right.
He will bless you, He will bless you,
If you put your trust in him.

It was powerful to me today.  God loves me.  He’s watching over me day and night and he’s delighting in blessing me.  If I only do what is right, he will bless me.  The last line is the hardest for me.  To trust him.  Completely.  Without holding back.  I will put my trust in him.  I have to.  I cannot bear these trials without him and his tender mercies and blessings.  He is constantly blessing us and I hope he’ll continue to bless us where this child is concerned.

Everything is working out so well for this baby.  The timing couldn’t be better- we’re due 1 week before school is out.  Tender mercy.  I think God knows that I’ll have a hard time transitioning from teaching to motherhood.  I don’t think He wanted to give me much down time from when school got out to the day the baby would be born.  Tender mercy.

The baby is coming after T graduates.  Tender mercy.

We live close to my parents and T’s parents are just an hour away.  Tender mercy.

We both have constant jobs where we can save up and get ready to start a family.  Tender mercy.


So many tender mercies.  With this morning sickness and other little bumps in the road, I find myself continually turning to the Lord for help and guidance.  I know that this experience will strengthen my relationship with my Heavenly Father and I truly want it too.  I already see my marriage being strengthened already as we listen to the counsel to start a family.  T is my rock through the days.  Without him, I wouldn’t get to work on time in the mornings.  He cuts up an apple and brings it to me in bed so I can eat something before getting up.  He scrapes the frost off of the car windows and warms up the car.  He packs me an overload of food so I’ll eat something in my lunchbox.  He makes dinner.   He does the laundry.  He washes the dishes.  He goes shopping for apples and oranges late on Saturday nights so I’ll have something to eat on Sunday and Monday.  

He’s my prince.  My perfect husband and companion that is ever so doting and worried.  I love him so much!

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